Thursday, June 22, 2006

catching you all up on my week

a letter i wrote to the youth sponsors

i am not sure how many of you will actually read this before youth tonight but i did want to send out a little greeting and to tall you what is in store for this evening.
if weather allows tonight will be an outdoor night with a campfire, roast some marshmellows, sing some songs and talk about life. this past week as all of you know has been a crazy one. it started with a visit to st joes and see the baby of shane and maria, 10lbs, all i said was i am sorry for your pain. it was a good visit as i saw where life started. then that evening came a spur of the moment trip to cleveland with bud to be with darcy and the rest of the hiltons. i was in cleveland when i received a call on thursday about my grandfather fading fast. so i hopped back in bud's car and drove home. while i driving back to pulaski i received a call of darcy's death. you never know when death will come. darci all though sick for a while just went to cleveland for a routine checkup. while there they put her under for a procedure and she never woke up from coma.friday i left pulaski for northern maine and arrived at the nursing home about 9:30pm. i couldnt believe that the man lying in the bed was my grandather. he had lost about 50 lbs and was very frail. i stayed the night there and woke up every now and then and could tell he was still breathing. the next morning we had breakfast and could tell that he was fading. his complexion started turning almost green and his breaths getting farther apart. as i held his hand he passed away. this was the first time i had ever been in the same room when someone had died. what now layed infront of me was someone mortal but i knew everything immortal about my grandfather was rejoicing up in heaven.tonight i am going to address all three people read ecclesiastes 3 as well as 1 corinthians 13:5 and tells you to examine yourself to see if your life is where it should be.

5 comments:

Stephen and Michelle said...

Sorry to hear about your hard week...but you are right about the rejoicing part. Stephen is doing a Bible study on Hebrews on Wednesday nights, and last night we talked about how if you know Jesus there is no reason to fear death (chapter 2).

It still doesn't make it easy to deal with the loss of someone you love, but at least there is hope, peace, and joy in knowing they are free of pain and sorrow, and that one day we will see each other again.
God bless,
Michelle

Brooks said...

prayers

Brooks said...

fellow partial red man,

brother, i knew there was always a special bond. Stay away from the firewater, don't accept any blankets from the white man, they may contain small pox.

running between two brooks.

J.T. and Kelli said...

Nate-

Just wanted to let you know I read your blog and am so sorry about your Grandfather. Kelli and I went through the same situation with her Grandfather last fall. I just want you to know that I will be praying for you and hope that when things calm down maybe we can talk because it has been far too long my friend. I hope things are going well for you and Jenny. I'm praying for you buddy!!

J.T.

PS I have a blog @ http://jtdienerkel.blogspot.com/ Also by the way, I really enjoy reading your blog about all the happenings in New York. Let us know if you will be out our way this summer. It would be so nice to see you. Praying for you buddy!

PSS I tried e-mailing this to you, but I think you probably have a different e-mail address....Mine's still the same...

Keith Drury said...

woah!!!! What a week...praying for strngth and God's presence....